A very personal thanksgiving
From Chinese New Year to Eid to Diwali, Asian cultures and religions place a heavy emphasis on giving thanks during celebrations. But the idea of a ritual solely revolving around giving thanks is somewhat alien. But the world is a crappy place, I realise that I’m not getting any younger and I don’t believe in religion, so the idea of a formal stocktaking of my many blessings is very attractive. So at least if I die tomorrow, this will serve as a testament to my virtue. Thanks to blind luck for helping me win the birth lottery by being born in a reasonably well to do, happy family. Thanks to growing up under the guidance of a mother who knew the power of education to transform lives, but was agnostic as to which direction it took. Who loved books but didn’t care which ones were read. Who believed in morality and values, but didn’t particularly care which label was attached to them. Thanks to a brother who imbibed those values way better than me and is still the most loyal friend I ...